The fact that we need a forum thread to work this out says a lot. – Marcus Boone 5mo ago
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On the phone, the Facebook app pushes you to Messenger for chats, but you can read and reply to messages from facebook.com in a mobile browser without the separate app. On desktop, facebook.com has messaging built right in, no Messenger needed.
Wish I had known this sooner. – Maria Brooks 5mo ago
This plus turning off read receipts basically fixed my whole inbox anxiety. – Wren Meyer 5mo ago
Been burned by third party apps for this exact thing, stick with the official settings. – Marcus Reyes 5mo ago
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Use the browser. facebook.com (mobile or desktop) lets you message without the Messenger app. The app just nags you to install it, you can ignore that and use the site.