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I am trying to move at least my close friends and family off the big apps and onto something that respects privacy, but there is one specific hangup: I do not want to hand over my phone number to sign up.
Most of the "private" recommendations I see still want a number, which defeats half the point for me. I would rather sign up with just an email, or a username, and keep my number to myself.
Bonus points if it is properly end to end encrypted by default, works on desktop as well as phone, and is not so obscure that nobody I know will actually install it. I know that is asking a lot.
What do people actually use for this in real life, not just the theoretical "most secure" answer that no normal person will touch?
Spanbox